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Monday, February 22, 2010

Journal 9

Okay so...we humans as such have our faults right...?and no matter how much you try to omit yourself from having most of those faults...you can never fully rid yourself of all of them...
So what makes these faults either harmful...or a fault that can be easily neglected...
You see, the faults we have the tiny ones....only you can see them and only you can decide whether they're in need of getting rid of or whether it doesnt really matter that they exist...
but when it comes to a point where its a fault that's turned into a habit...well then its time for you to get rid of it...cos now this habit of yours can turn into something ugly...it would bring about a response, that you wont be able to figure out as to why your getting it...
Humans are all we are, so basically you can't blame yourself for this fault becoming a habit...but you are the only to blame when you choose to neglect the fact that its bringing about a negative response...
So when it comes to that, don't find reasons to defend yourself...or what you do..by saying its out of habit..because habits are bound to change..and you are the one who can change them...defending these so called faults...makes you ignorant, and I personally would think of the person as stubborn and immature...(including myself)...

I have faults..some of them horrible..and yea i ignore some of them...and some of them i try to get rid of..i guess its not easy at times..when it becomes a habit...you dont realize what it does to others...but if you for an instance put yourself in their shoes, or figure out how'd you feel if you had someone like 'ÿourself'' in your life...I'm betting you'd see things in a new or better perspective....

So why do we become so ignorant to these habits...?why do we just put them at the back of our head..and say things like ''óh nvm..he/she'll get over it''? or "your looking too much into the whole thing..."
Is that also one of the faults turned habit? If it is well now you know what to do...

There is always a limit, for going too far in anything...in this case, when it comes to a point that others are affected in a negative way, STOP!
Stop being so ignorant to your conscience, stop not doin whats right, stop neglecting these faults...maybe it is high time you did something about them...

Then comes another issue of how exactly do you do that....how do you stop yourself from getting annoyed or mad for the slightest thing....how do you stop yourself from jealousy taking over you...how do you stop giving too much meanin for things that shouldnt matter...the list goes on...and I wish i had the answer...but for this...I'm still on the whole journey of finding that out...

Whats next then...yea...there is always a group of people who probably aren't willing to accept the fact that they can actualy do anything about these habits...and there cliched reason would probably be 'this is who i am...this is me..i cant do anything about it...'...(right now i wish i could play one of those beep sound effects) well..what do we say to these people...yea...this probably is part of your pesonality...but it cant be who you are can it? Its something negative..and you openly admit to the fact thats it who YOU are...i doubt anyone would like to consider themselves as such...i mean..these habits come and go right...?sometimes they stay...depending again on you...what you do about it...and if it stays...if you CHOOSE it...then THATS who you are...its then that probably it becomes a part of you...so..technically your personality is of one, who isn't willing to change the negative...but to just make others accept, what you 'CHOOSE and are WILLING NOT to change'..whether or not it affects them in a bad way or not...?
Now honestly...what would you think of a person like this....?

Then again us humans have all come in different ways...so the other party...being humans have a choice here too...whether to accept or reject....which would you choose?

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